Abbi Hearne: Leave No Trace

On today’s show we have a really special guest. You may have followed them on Instagram, I’m sure most of you have, and you’ve seen their beautiful work at national parks with couples on cliffs and trails; they have some stunning work. On today’s show we have Abbi Hearne joining us of the Hearne’s Photography and we’re talking about a really important topic: Leave No Trace. We’re going to dive into it in the episode, so I won’t talk about it too much right now but let me just tell you that Abbi has a ton of really valuable information on this topic, and I’m so grateful she was able to come on the show and share all of her thoughts and advice on it. If you are interested in adventure wedding photography or if that’s something that you do, there are so many good reminders and valuable insights on Leave No Trace for you in this episode, so pay attention, take notes if you can. I’m so excited for you guys to listen to this episode. It’s so good! I could rave about it all day, but instead I’ll just let you start listening!

Joelle: Welcome to the show, Abbi! I’m so excited that you’re on here, like I was telling you just now, you have been super inspirational and informative with all of your posts on Instagram about Leave No Trace, and I’m really excited to dive into that, but before we get into the nitty gritty of it all, I would love for you to give a little background on who you are, where you’re from, and a short synopsis of how you got started with all of this.

Abbi: Awesome! Thank you so much for having me. My name is Abbi Hearne, and I’m married to Callen Hearne. We both live on the road. We’ve been living on the road for almost two and a half years now. I just calculated that our 1000th day on the road will be June 2nd, so that’s random and awesome.

Joelle: Congrats! That’s cool!

Abbi: We live in a giant truck, rig, camper thing, and we are adventure wedding photographers. We shoot weddings all over the western US. We spend a lot of time in Yosemite National Park and Moab, Utah. Those are kind of our main places, but we go all over Arizona, and we really like Wyoming and Washington, and last summer we went up to Alaska and really loved that, so we’re planning to go again this summer, but yeah, we joke that anywhere west of the Continental Divide is where you can find us. We’ve been loving it so far. It comes with its difficulties, but overall, it’s a pretty amazing lifestyle.

Joelle: Yeah, and you guys rock at it! How long did you say you’ve been doing this?

Abbi: We started in September 2016. That’s when our lease ended in Texas.

Joelle: Wow! It feels like it’s been so much longer. I guess it’s 2019 now, so it’s a little longer than that, but that’s so cool. I love seeing everything that you guys do. The biggest reason I wanted to have you on the podcast today is to talk about Leave No Trace. Like I was telling you earlier, I had never heard about Leave No Trace, had no idea it was a thing until about a year ago when I saw an article that you and Maddie Mae put together, and it just really opened my eyes to this whole new world of being so much more environmentally conscious about our public lands, and just being a good human in those areas and so I would love to hear more on the subject from you today, but first I guess we’ll just start with the basics. I’m sure a lot of people are listening who, like me, have no idea what the heck we’re talking about right now, so can you just give a small definition of what Leave No Trace is?

Abbi: Yeah, absolutely. So, Leave No Trace or often abbreviated LNT is basically guidelines for how to enjoy the outdoors, and have as minimal impact on them as you can. It’s on the premise that every human recreating in the outdoors, we’re having some level of impact. The natural places that we go to would probably be, best case scenario, that no humans ever go there and make fires and go to the restroom and do the things that humans do in places, but because we do, we have these guidelines. They’re not black and white. They’re not for sure this one is right, this one is wrong, but they are ideas to help you think of the impact you’re having, and then give advice on how to have minimal impact.

Joelle: Have you always been a pretty big advocate for Leave No Trace? Since you guys got started with this is that around the time when you started being more conscious about this, or has this always been engrained in you?

Abbi: I’m really glad you asked this question because we actually both grew up going outdoors with our families. I went to national parks on road trips and such, but we actually didn’t really know about Leave No Trace until just a few years ago, even after we started on our own going into national parks and doing our own adventures and road trips. I think really when we started learning about it, Callen worked at REI fora whilee, and I’m sure he heard about it then, but it was once I started seeing the impact people were having on the outdoors that I started doing this research, learning about it, and asking other people how we can have a minimal impact because I was seeing first hand these beautiful places that even in just two or three years were becoming more and more destroyed, and you could tell that a lot of people had gone there.

I can’t remember when REI launched their Opt Outside Campaign and they started shutting down on Black Fridays instead of staying open, and really when they did that, the outdoors and outdoor recreation just skyrocketed in the US. It was a really good thing, obviously. It’s amazing that people are going outside, and more people care about the outdoors, but it also kind of had a negative impact in the sense that it sent a lot of people into the outdoors without knowing how to have a minimal impact, and how to love and enjoy and respect the outdoors. They just go to national parks and assume they can do whatever they want and have no issues. I think I started doing my own research pretty late in my own outdoor enjoyment which I think should be encouraging for anyone listening that thinks, “I had no idea what this was.” There’s no way for you to for sure know it, you’re not forced to learn it before going into a national park, so I hope anyone listening that has never heard of it can start doing their own research and learn how to have a minimal impact and telling people around them.

Joelle: Absolutely. That’s awesome! So, I have a basic understanding now of LNT and I know that there are seven basic principles, is that right?

Abbi: Yeah.

Joelle: Would you mind listing those and kind of walking us through each of them?

Abbi: Yeah, so the seven Leave No Trace principles are:

  1. Plan ahead and prepare – a lot of people miss this because they start thinking about Leave No Trace when they show up. It’s about learning the certain things about the place you’re going. A really good example is if you’re going to go to Moab, Utah, it’s really important to learn about the cryptobiotic soil that is honestly the lifeblood of the desert and it’s all over. Pretty much anywhere you see that isn’t a trail or isn’t exposed rock, it has cryptobiotic soil and stepping on it kills it, and it’s hundreds and hundreds of years old. What it does is it holds the moisture for the desert and helps all of the plants grow. That’s something that if you’re going to Moab or Utah and you want to hike in the desert, it would be really helpful to beforehand do some research, learn about the soil, what it looks like, and when you get there, you know to avoid it instead of spending a whole Moab trip walking on crypto and then later learn that you’ve been destroying the desert by trying to go off the beaten path. There’re all kinds of ways to apply that, so getting permits, knowing about campground regulations, just in general doing research about a place you’re going to go.
  2. Travel and camp on durable surfaces – that’s actually also applicable with crypto and other things that basically when you go to a place, especially if it is frequented by humans, you really want to think about the impact that your footprint is having. If you’re walking and you can walk on rocks verses walking through some grass, always try to walk on rocks, or on an established trail if you see there’s a place where hundreds and thousands of people have walked and that’s made a trial, obviously it’s going to be more damaging if you walk two feet to the left of that through the grass, and eventually you might end up making another trail, and then it’s just not great. Trails, exposed rocks, things not being impacted by your footprint, and that applies for hiking, driving, and camping. You want to be on durable surfaces.
  3. Dispose of waste properly – this again goes back to planning ahead and preparing. Some places recommend that if you’re going to have to use the #2 restroom, you need to dig a cathole hat is like 200 feet from a water source, and it has to be six inches deep, and 6 inches wide and you need to use the restroom and bury it, but some places like in the Utah desert, it’s often recommended that you pack out all of your waste, so what we use is called a wag bag, and it’s often what climbers use on the wall. We have those for emergency scenarios where we need to use the restroom in the desert and then honestly, it’s kind of gross, but you need to have everything to make sure you can bring that out. That applies to all trash and everything, so making sure that you’re bringing out whatever you brought in.
  4. Leave what you find – that applies to finding a cool rock or a beautiful leaf or if you find artifacts. It’s really tempting to bring things home when you find things you love, but if everyone brought home a pinecone from Yosemite, we wouldn’t have pinecones anymore. You leave what you find. Enjoy it, take a photo of it, but don’t bring little pieces of the park home with you.
  5. Minimize campfire impact – that goes back to planning ahead and preparing. Be aware of the fire regulations and it’s always best to make a fire in an established fire ring instead of building a new one. If you are going to build a new one, be aware of the legalities in the place that you’re at, and the best way to do that. Obviously, make sure it’s completely burnt out before you leave it. Burying a fire is not enough. You really need to drown it out with water, and absolutely make sure it’s completely gone before you leave the area.
  6. Respect wildlife – this one is really important because a lot of people go to national parks and they want to feed the animals like a petting zoo, but they are wild. They’re wild animals living in Yosemite Valley, wild bears, coyotes, squirrels, and every time a human gives them food, it actually ends up hurting that animal because it makes them think humans are a source of food and there are so many cases of bears becoming so used to getting food from humans that they become violent and have to be killed. It’s best to not feed the wildlife. Don’t approach them when they’re nervous. Don’t put your child on their back for their photo. Let them live their life and be respectful.
  7. Be considerate of other visitors – that’s just to realize that you don’t have any more of a right to be in the place than the person next to you does. You both have access to the park and you both have the same rights in the park, and so if someone is standing where you want to stand to take a photo, you can kindly asking them to move over, but don’t think because you have a bigger camera, or it’s just you and they’re  family or whatever, that you can be rude to them. This one is really difficult because there are times that people are just so inconsiderate of other visitors, whether it’s playing loud music on a speaker, or flying their drone nearby, even where drones are legal, you just have to think of the experience that everyone else is having and we always try and do our very best to not negatively affect other people’s experiences, and even when I want to be really grumpy towards tourists that are in Yosemite for the first time and are taking a photo with their giant iPad at tunnel view, it’s like they have the right to be there and they have the right to take those photos, and stand in front of me if they want to, and whatever else. It’s not like I get to have more control because I’ve been there more and because I know the park better or anything like that.

Abbi: Those are all of the principles, the seven original ones. There’s actually like social media guidelines as well.

Joelle: Oh really? Yes, please!

Abbi: Okay, yeah, so this is kind of cool. The Leave No Trace guidelines have been around for a long time, and now there’s these new guidelines regarding social media.

  1. Tag thoughtfully – this is a huge debate in the social media world, but basically it’s saying that if you’re going to go to a location like Yosemite, maybe consider tagging Yosemite National Park instead of tagging Glacier Point Overlook or any other specific places because while we do want to inspire people to visit the parks, we also want to encourage them to do their own research and do their own exploration. The idea with Instagram tagging of just being a way of easily finding a location has quickly destroyed quite a few places. The most classic example is if you see Horseshoe Bend, it’s just become completely overrun and one of the reasons for that is Instagram geotagging, just people posting the photo, it becoming an iconic photo that everyone recognizes, and then it becoming extremely easy to figure out exactly where it is, and go right to there, and take the exact same photo.
  2. Be mindful of what your images portray – this is a really good one because often people are breaking a law or breaking a rule, they can say it’s okay for me to do this, I had this reason, this is fine, but if your image portrays some illegal activity or makes it seem like it’s okay to do something, then you’re still having a negative impact. A really good example is I recently saw a photo of somebody in Yosemite with their tent set up at Taft Point, and it was in a place where it’s illegal to camp overnight, and they took a photo of the tent, and posted it on Instagram and when they were confronted about it, they were like, “Well we didn’t camp there, we just set it up for the photo”, and I don’t know why you would do that, but you have the right to set up the tent on that durable surface for a photo, but you’re posting that photo, and it’s making people think that they can camp there, and you never know if your photo is going to inspire someone else to camp there, make a fire right there, and have a big impact. Obviously, you’re not responsible for everyone around you, but it’s something you don’t want to have a negative impact by making it look like illegal activity is okay.
  3. Give back to places you love – I really love this one because once again the Leave No Trace guidelines are just guidelines, they’re not hard and fast rules. You’re not a terrible person if you don’t follow them. I would suggest that you do, but it’s not illegal to break Leave No Trace, but giving back to the places you love is super important and this actually comes up with the current government shutdown issue where a lot of people are flooding the national parks because they’re “free” right now. That’s really bad. Why would you go to Yosemite and think that it’s okay to go when it’s free and take advantage of the park, when obviously they have entrance fees for a reason, and clearly there’s not some Yosemite king that’s rolling in that dough. I would say think of ways you can give back, whether it’s with your park entrance fee, or going above and beyond that and donating to things like the Access Fund who sends out volunteer stewardship and helps clean up places that need that help, or I actually just learned about a new one, the Yosemite Climber’s Association and you can donate at, and they are just volunteers that go and clean up the park. They do an event once a year called Yosemite Facelift where they go, and it’s a lot of climbers, so they go clean all the trash out, and all of the left behind poop bags, and all the bottles, and stray ropes, and all kinds of things that are just leaving junk all over the park. Finding a place like that that you agree with and you want to give back to, whether it’s with your time or your money or both, I think that’s a really good guideline.
  4. Encourage and inspire leave no trace in social media posts – if you listen to this podcast you are now equipped! Share things with your followers. You don’t have to be this crazy intense person that people are afraid to hike with because you’re going to bite their head off if they step on crypto, but you know, post about these things like “Hey, I picked up this trash on the trail, maybe try and do that next time you hike, too”, or “I noticed that these people were making a fire in a place that’s illegal and I just want to educate everyone on why this is illegal.” There’re really kind and thoughtful ways to do this. Unfortunately, a lot of people use Leave No Trace as a weapon to belittle people that are new in the outdoors, and people that just truly don’t know. It should never be that. My friend did a post recently where she said that it’s not about calling people out and making them feel less than or feel like they’ve messed up. It’s more about calling people in and showing them the correct way to do things and showing them that maybe bringing that artifact home wasn’t the best idea, here’s what Leave No Trace is, and here’s why you shouldn’t do that. I think it would be cool if you brought it back and explained why you brought it back, you know things like that. Just being kind.

Abbi: Those were the social media guidelines. Both of these can be found by googling Leave No Trace Principles or google Leave No Trace Social Media, and I think they’re the top link for both.

Joelle: I’m so glad you brought that up. I had no idea about the social media side, and it all makes so much sense. I just have to say I really appreciate the way you handle yourself in all of this. You have such poise and grace about you when you talk about these things, and I feel like it’s so much more powerful that way, so thank you for that. It’s a great example for all of us.

I want to kind of touch base on one of your posts from last fall. In October you shared on your Instagram about how you had seriously considered quitting this incredible job, and never booking a wedding in public lands again only because you were afraid that you could be having a more negative impact than a good one. Instead, you decided to take action and you sat down with the Moab Bureau of Land Management to talk about ways you guys could help each other, and I love that you took action on that for a more positive difference rather than just stepping back. You recognized the positive power and influence you could have on the subject which I think is an incredible example for all of us. Following up on that I would love to hear if you don’t mind sharing what all you guys talked about. Is there anything you can share about the ways you guys will be working together this year?

Abbi: Totally. Yeah, my friends that are the ones I text when I’m upset know about this. My monthly meltdown about photography in the outdoors and those kinds of things. Honestly, it’s typically spurred by seeing a fellow photographer going to one of the places we’ve been to quite a few times, and we’ve posted photos of, and they’ll go take photos there, and it my head I’m like, “Oh my gosh, I’m making the next horseshoe bend, this is 100% my fault if this place becomes destroyed because it becomes trendy in the wedding world”, and then I just spiral.

Basically, I started coaching myself and realizing is that this is happening whether I am involved in it or not. People are more attracted to the outdoors, the idea of getting married in the outdoors has become more and more popular, and even outside of the wedding industry, more people are wanting to recreate in the outdoors. I constantly try and remind myself that overall this is a good thing, and it’s good for the human race, and it’s good for our country, and for these outdoor spaces I hope. Basically, I’ve realized that I can have a better impact, or I think I can have a better impact by being involved in these places and posting and sharing and with the following I have, using that power to educate people on how to spend their time in the outdoors. I really love doing posts about the cryptobiotic soil, and I love when I get messages from people saying, “I came to Moab for the first time, and I saw this crypto, and I told everyone in my group about it and how we need to stay on trail to avoid it”, and it just makes my day because these are people that maybe would have never known.

Overall, I hope that we’re still having a positive impact, but it definitely is something that I’m aware of, and I’m fearful of the idea of inspiring people to go somewhere and then not knowing how to treat it, or even my impact personally by going to these places over and over, so yeah, this October I sat down with Moab BLM and I actually talked to one of the staff people about a year before that, and we got to know each other, and they knew who we were and our website and we stayed connected and finally this fall we were in Moab and I had time and I was like, “Hey, can we sit down and just talk through what the heck is going on, and if we have any ideas for how to help each other make it better”, because we both have the end goal of preserving and protecting the lands, and that’s something I will say is different about our business is that our number one priority is the land and we choose not to work with couples that aren’t going to respect that.

We try really hard to put that out there and let them know before they book with us that that’s important to us, and in the end, we would never choose our service and our job over protecting these places long term. I think BLM feels the same way and when we talked with them, their issue is it’s becoming so popular to get married in Moab, and for adventure elopements to happen in Moab, or adventure weddings and their issue is that a lot of people are coming in and just assuming they can wander wherever they want with fifteen people and because it’s a small wedding it’s a minimal impact on the land, and they’re not realizing that if every weekend multiple people, groups of fifteen, are walking out on crypto, to have a ceremony in some beautiful, remote, off the beaten path place that’s going to have a really negative impact, and especially because it is photos of people standing on crypto, or photos of people breaking these rules that has a widespread impact beyond anything we can figure out. That’s BLM’s issue and I am on the same team as them, and I want to figure out how to fix it.

Our solution this year is that they’re testing out their permitting process on us by having us apply as a special recreation permit, which is the permit that anyone that does jeep touring or hike tours or canyoneering, anything that provides a service that brings people into the outdoors, and Moab BLM has to have this permit, so we have it, which means that we go over every single one of our locations with them, and they all have to be approved based on location and number of people. We also have shown them and proven to them our emergency responses, so that we have an in reach in case of emergency. It’s kind of a thing that even if we’re out of cell phone service, we can send an SOS and it contacts the nearest search and rescue. Obviously, we hope we never have to use that with one of our wedding couples, but in case of emergency, and all kinds of other things. We basically had to prove to them that we are worthy of bringing people into the outdoors and that we have plans in place for if things go wrong.

The difficult thing, and what they’re trying to figure out, and we’re helping with, is that it’s really hard to make every single wedding photographer that comes to Moab get the permit because it was a long process, and it’s complicated, and it’s like a year long permit, so if someone’s doing one wedding in April, they’re not going to be that motivated to get this one permit. With BLM it’s also really difficult to enforce anything and make sure people have the permits because they have so few officers out there. It’s still difficult, and it’s still an issue, but we’re trying to figure it out, and I think it could be helpful for the national parks where the couple has to get a permit for their location and number of people, and that way it’s not the photographer who is in charge of the permits each year, but each couple has to get a permit for their wedding.

Obviously, there will always be people that break rules, but that’s not a reason to not put rules in place. I have hope for where this can go and I hope that it encourages more photographers to pay attention to local rangers and local BLM and learn how they can have minimal impact and how they can most benefit BLM because another part of that permit is at the end of the year, we will pay back 3% of our earnings in Moab to the BLM service. When I was telling a friend about that, they were like, “Oh my gosh, 3% is so much”, and I was like, “It is, but also, it’s going to BLM who is maintaining the lands that we’re using”, so really to me a 3% studio fee is pretty low. I have no issue with that money going to BLM. I think it would be amazing if every single wedding that occurred in Moab, if 3% of the photographer’s earnings went to BLM because that would just be huge for them and help them a lot. Obviously, they’re not like rolling in cash. I think it could be really good if everyone pursued something like that, but it will be difficult to figure out how to enforce it and educate every photographer about that plan.

Joelle: I love how well thought out all of this is. It just makes me appreciate our national parks even more, and everything that you guys are doing. You bring up another question, so I would love to hear from you, what are some ways that photographers can plan ahead whenever they have adventure weddings in national parks? How can they properly prepare?

Abbi: Such a good question. So, for wedding photographers, if you book a wedding in a national park, it’s really important to realize that every national park requires a permit for the wedding. That’s almost always up to the couple to get. We always tell our couple about it, and in every national park I’ve worked in, they’ve required that the permit say the place the wedding ceremony will occur, and a time slot. In Yosemite we typically pick Glacier Point, it’s one of the more popular wedding ceremony locations, so as soon as they want to book with me, I tell them, get your permit from Yosemite, and as soon as you have a permit, we’ll book that date because sometimes the park will come back and say the next day or the day before is a little better. They’ll book Glacier Point from 1 PM to 3 PM or something like that and their ceremony will be at 2:30 or 2:00. That’s just something that everyone needs to get. Basically, it helps the park understand what is happening, know what’s happening, and especially at a place like Glacier Point where so many people want to get married there, and make sure that someone else isn’t getting married there at the same time as you. Obviously, that would not be ideal. Yosemite is one of the parks that I have definitely had that permit be enforced and they want us to have it on hand, but we always make our couples get the permit and have a printed copy with us while we’re hiking, or when it’s obvious that we are a photographer crew with a wedding couple, it’s important to have the permit. That’s a big one.

Also, I am a strong proponent of scouting beforehand. So, I actually just a few days ago got an email from a photographer that had just booked her first Yosemite adventure session, or I think it was an adventure wedding, and she was super excited, and she was like, “Hey, I just booked this, I’ve never been to Yosemite, do you have any suggestions for where we should go?” I was just like okay, our couples pay us a lot of money for that information, and for that knowledge, and it’s hard because honestly I believe that you should know the place before you’re taking a couple there because first, it’s one of the Leave No Trace principles, but also as an adventure photographer, you’re typically viewed as their host, and while you aren’t technically their guide, they kind of see you as that, and a lot of our couples have never been to these places before, so they’ll book with us in Yosemite, and it’s their first time in Yosemite, and they’re trusting us to show them the way and show them where to go. I feel like it’s really important to know the place beforehand. Ideally, you would go there and physically walk around and scout and have a few days or go and do a trip before the trip for the wedding and just get to know the area and do research and it’s amazing because you’re in Yosemite. It’s not that bad of a thing to have to do before a wedding. I think that’s really important. If you can’t go there beforehand, I think there’s a lot of ways to scout from afar. Using Google Maps, Google Earth, with Yosemite it’s really important to understand the traffic patterns and know that the Valley Loop is one way and if you’re going to have your wedding ceremony in Ackerson Meadow and then go take photos and do a picnic at Cathedral Beach, you should probably park at the cross-thru instead of having to do the entire loop to get back to the beach. Little things like that are really important to look at it beforehand. I can’t possibly tell a photographer that, even if I wanted to, but the bottom line is, if people hired you the photographer, you should be the expert. You should be the one that knows the information that they need. That’s something that I really believe in, and so it does kind of irritate me when I see people that book something and then they’re like, “What do we do?”. You need to figure it out for yourself.

I think those are really important things, and then definitely know the Leave No Trace guidelines, talk to rangers, you can almost always call an office and get on the phone with someone and say, “Hey, I’m going to shoot a wedding here. We got our permit for this time, what do I need to know?” People are so happy to tell you that because they want the parks to be viewed and enjoyed and they love when people care about that, and want to do it in a sustainable way. That’s kind of my main advice.

Joelle: Solid advice! Seriously! Okay, going off of that, I’d love to hear a little about how you guys educate your couples before you go on a hike, and meet up and do the whole shebang. What are some things you tell them ahead of time? How do you prep them?

Abbi: So, first and foremost, our social media is a huge way to do this. It’s something where I’m sharing it because it’s what I care about, but it’s also a strategic move because almost all of our couples find us through Instagram, and even if they don’t, they follow us on Instagram, and so by me posting it, often, we will get to Moab and we’ll be about to do our crypto spiel and my bride will be like, “Oh yeah, that’s crypto”, and it’s amazing because she’s says she’s seen it in our stories. That’s our frontline of telling people and making sure that most of the people we’re interacting with know about it.

On top of that, with our couples, we have a guide we send out to them beforehand, and I actually have been working on it over Christmas break because our guide has kind of always had guidelines, and encouraged people to know about Leave No Trace, but I’ve been putting in more work to have it be like very specific and tell them our expectations and what they can expect from us, and that we are for the parks and those kinds of things. I’ve thought about possibly doing custom guides for locations for specific things to know about Yosemite that are for sustainability, and also things that are helpful like that the restrooms are disgusting.

So that’s how we educate them before hand, and we have it in our contract that we won’t do things that are hurtful for the park or things that could put our couple in danger when they’re in the park, and that kind of thing. We always set expectations beforehand to where when we do get to the place, and we are hiking, and if your bride were to say, “Hey could we take a photo over there?”, and I respond, “We have to stomp on crypto to get to that spot, so I’d rather not.” With all of these expectations before hand they will likely say, “Oh, good point, I didn’t even notice that.” Whereas if I haven’t put any of that out there before, they might be like “What the heck is crypto? I want to go take that photo.” So, I think beforehand expectations are important.

We also, before every session, when we actually meet up with a couple, we do a spiel about how we take our photos and what to expect in that realm, and then I’ll also educate them on the specific area, and as we’re hiking out I’ll point out what cryptobiotic soil is, or in Yosemite we often pick up trash, and it’s cool because our couples typically pick up on that and start picking up trash as well. Things like that are all about leading by example and then educating them beforehand. That’s really important to me, so if I see them do something that is wrong, or if I see them pulling out confetti for a ceremony, and I didn’t know about it beforehand, instead of being like “Oh my gosh, you can’t do that, that’s ridiculous, you’re littering”, I’ll pull them aside and say, “Hey, they encourage people not to throw confetti in the park because this is technically litter and even if it’s biodegradable, the next few people that come and view this area, there will be confetti all over the ground, so could we do this photo in the parking lot where we’ll be able to pick it up?”, or something like that. We try to come up with new ideas and so far, every single time they have completely understood and known that I was putting them and the park at the top of my priorities, and I wasn’t trying to be rude or ruin their plans and that kind of thing. I think having them know we care about it is super important.

Joelle: Yeah, it’s a super valuable approach rather than just shutting them down. I love that you come up with a compromise, so they can still find a good middle for both of you, while still being respectful. That’s awesome.

So, you’ve talked about here and there, about the reasons why you no longer disclose exactly where your photo spots are around national parks, and you kind of touched base on that with the new social media LNT principles, too, which is awesome. Do you guys ask your couples not to share the different locations that you guys go to for their couple photos as well? Or do you just trust that they won’t say anything?

Abbi: With that, I don’t specifically ask them not to. I talk to them about why I don’t, and typically our couples have gone away from their wedding deciding that they don’t want to share the location either. Sometimes it’s because they feel like it’s their special location, and sometimes it’s for Leave No Trace, but that’s something that I honestly still feel like is up to the user on Instagram. It’s definitely something that a lot of people like to share specific locations, a lot of people really hate when you won’t. I personally do not, but I don’t think I have the grounds to tell other people not to.

For our couples, sometimes I’ll bring them to a place that is very special to us, and is something I really don’t want shared, and in that case, I will explain to them that I don’t want them to disclose the location, and unfortunately on Instagram, people can be so sneaky and I’ve had people ask me for a location and I’ve refused to give it, and they have messaged my couple directly and asked them. I just encourage them to tag Arches National Park or in Moab, I always just tag Moab, Utah which could be anywhere. That’s what I tag. I think I typically encourage my couples to do that, but I’m also not going to go after them if I see them tagging specific locations.

Joelle: Awesome. I just think that’s a really good rule of thumb. This has all been so informative, I cannot thank you enough for all of this. Thank you so, so much! Is there anything else you would like to leave with us as we wrap up this episode?

Abbi: Thank you so much for asking all of these questions. It’s been really good. I would say moving forward, the biggest thing is to realize that there’s not these like noble, wonderful Leave No Trace advocates that will always know more than you. You as a person can always learn how to Leave No Trace, how to best respect the land. You can learn about the specific places you go to, and the best way to love and have minimal impact on them, and you don’t need to just leave it up to the warriors that you see on social media that know everything. Do this research for yourself and figure out for yourself. Talk to rangers. The biggest thing is to realize that if we’re learning anything from this giant government shut down that’s happening right now, the national parks are run by the staff. The staff are so important to these places. One thing I’ve learned this year is nobody loves the parks like the park staff do. Those rangers in the parks, I mean I know sometimes It’s like “Oh, rangers are cops, and I don’t want to see their car because I’m going to get in trouble”, but rangers care about the parks, they care about the visitors and they want the best for both. I would say just talk to rangers, talk to the people working at the visitor center, get to know the people caring for these places because they know what’s best for the individual park you’re at, and then learn for yourself and do your own research and figure out ways you can love these places. It’s not cool to break rules. Nature is really important and really fragile, and we want to learn how to respect it the most we possibly can.

Joelle: Amen to that! Awesome! Well guys if you were in the car and you couldn’t take notes, or you just want to be able to look back on the written version of this episode to use for future reference, we will have show notes up, and you can find those at the link We’ll have all of this information up for you guys to be able to look back on. Thank you so much Abbi for all of this! This was so informative, so helpful. I love everything that you’re doing, all the ways you’re advocating for this, and I’ve just learned so much, and I’m excited to learn more from you!

Last question, how can people find you and keep up with you?

Abbi: You can find me on Instagram @abbihearne, and then linked in that profile is our adventure weddings account @thehearnes, and you can find Callen in there as well. That’s the best way to find us or if you want to go to our website,, that has our blog and our wedding work, and that’s how you would contact us for adventure wedding inquiries. Really, social media is the best way to follow along, and I’m extremely active on both accounts. It’s me running @thehearnes account and sometimes I’ll post the same thing on both, but it’s almost always different so a lot of people like to follow both, but I would say whichever one applies to you and is the most interesting to you.

Joelle: Awesome! You heard it guys! Go follow her. They have some amazing work and if you don’t follow them already you are seriously missing out! Thank you so, so much Abbi!


I am just blown away by all of the information that Abbi shared and just so grateful that she came on the show. I know I’ve said it a million times, but I really could not be more grateful for her for sharing all of this valuable insight.

A couple of things as we wrap things up. First of all, show notes. You can find everything that we talked about at That’s where you can find the transcripts, links, and everything so you can have it for future reference or if you weren’t able to take notes that’s where you’ll be able to find all of the information. I know I myself will probably be looking back on it a couple different times because I love everything that was shared. It was so valuable.

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